Tuesday, July 14, 2009

The Pretty Style Bookshelf

Pets, I'm all out of substance after yesterday's post - let's return to the State of Superficial, shall we?

We talked about coming up with a clothing "splurge vs. save list" recently, which got me thinking more about how to build a wardrobe based on what is both flattering & largely designed to last beyond one season.  That sounds a bit obvious, but again, given These Difficult Times blah blah blah, I'm trying to focus even more on my Grandmother's mantra "Buy less, but better" instead of just purchasing what is merely on sale or en vogue.

To that end, I've consulted my bookshelf to consult those who actually know something about the matter, unlike this boring lawyer.  By a book's very nature, it won't be able to cover the fleeting fashions like a magazine or the 'net can, but the right one can be invaluable in creating a lasting style.  Here are a few nuts-and-bolts reads I've found both useful and just fun to look at over the years (all images credit to Amazon):


"What You Wear Can Change Your Life" by Trinny Woodall and Susannah Constantine. Don't be put off by the grandiose title - one, because I assume you wouldn't be reading this blog if you were a stranger to hyperbole; and two, because these two are spot-on with their advice on how to dress for your figure & complexion.  The latter is something that is frequently overlooked by the glossies, which irritates me to no end; obviously part of building a lasting wardrobe is finding the cuts and colors that actually work on you, and not just throwing on the latest trend.

Also, Trinny & Susannah's hysterical BBC show "What Not to Wear" is far superior to the American version, if you're a fan of style TV.


"InStyle Secrets of Style": I like this one for seeing outfits in action on celebrities, as well as their wardrobe basics approach. Some styles are dated, but the underlying content is good.


"Style" by Kate Spade: I'm not the KS aficionado like I once was, but on my more preptastic days, I love the retro illustrations, quotes, and traditional style advice.

"A Guide to Quality, Taste & Style" by Tim Gunn:  I'm going to confess something shocking to you . . . this book is winging its way to me just now, so I can't vouch for it yet.   Forgive me, Fantasy GBFF Tim Gunn, for I can't comprehend how I've survived without your sage advice until this point.  Two penalty shifts at "Mood" for me, at a minimum.

Per my International Woman of Mystery duties, I have a few long plane rides in my near future - any other style reads you would recommend?

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Darlings, I'd love your input on something - I'm considering moving my more personal posts elsewhere;  I enjoy writing those just as much as I do these Pretty posts, but I'm uncertain whether the two belong in the same space.  Do you like reading a bit of each here?

Please don't worry about hurting my feelings - I drowned those in a vat of Veuve long ago.  (I mean that) (sort of) (so long as you're polite) (because I'm like the Chinese government when it comes to comments, except with better accessories) (parentheses).  Thanks for your thoughts!

Edited to add: On a second read-through, it looks like I'm trolling for compliments here.  I'm not, truly. I will let you know, decisively, flagrantly, and none too subtly when I'm in search of flattery.  Which is the vast majority of the time, but not now.  

37 comments:

for a different kind of girl said...

From time to time, I'll stand around at work (in my sensible shoes and sad pants) and look at these books and try to get inspired. In my mind, I'm far more stylish than I really am! I should check them out further sometime, really.

I don't mind both topics in one spot, but it does come down to what you're interested in doing and what you can give to more than one blog if you wish.

Maggie said...

Hard to imagine a wittier or funnier evening than cocktails with Trinny and Susannah... Maybe American women don't compliment each other's breasts enough. Or tell each other we look like hell. Because T&S do both superbly.

Dollface said...

I like a mix of both.. i think it gives your blog more depth and makes everything that much more interesting!! why change a good thing :) xxxooo

Sarah said...

Oh man I absolutely love Trinny and Susannah. They are not only hilarious but so honest... everybody could use a dose of their honesty once and a while.

Have you read Stacy and Clinton's (of What Not to Wear fame) books? I think they have 2 or 3... and I think Clinton just put out one himself recently. Not sure if they are your cup of tea, but they were helpful.

As for mixing personal and Pretty posts - I love it. Every pretty girl has a personal life, and I love the mix of the two. Just my 2 cents.

Southern said...

I need to check some of these out! I too feel like I'm more stylish at times than I really am, I think. But people do come to me and ask for advice, so that makes me feel pretty good.

Blackeyed_Susan said...

Love your posts, keep them together. Pretty please :)

B.o.B. said...

i like the personal posts. it's up to you though. if you feel you have enough for two and need the second one for your own outlet then by all means go for it. i'll follow (stalk) you wherever. ;)

Mrs. Realife said...

A blog is about what you want - split them up/keep them together... either way, your content is fabulous -

I've been thinking of laying out my entire wardrobe and seeing what different pieces I could put together... I have sooooo many items and am continuously feeling I have nothing to wear, which I know is not the truth.

Maybe one of these books would inspire me -

sara said...

Though I haven't read Tim Gunn's book yet, I'm going to go on record as saying I am 100% confident it is fantastic. In my fantasy world, Tim is my GBFF and he assists me with all wardrobe decisions, coming up with fabulous outfits - each one better than the one before!

Jennifer said...

I would definitely recommend Tim Gunn's book. It was wonderful. As for your content...I like the mix of both!

When Pigs Fly said...

I really enjoy both together. It does change things up and I never know what kind of post I am going to come across from day to day. I don't find you working at cross purposes.

Sadako said...

These all look really great. And I do love TIm Gunn.

Sweet Carolina Bride said...

I enjoy the In Style book; I'll have to check out the others.

I think you've got a great mix going on now! It's nice to mix the Pretty with the personal.

Chic Runner said...

I for sure need style help. Ha! I look at these books and think, ahhh so cute. I just have no edginess in my body. :) I want to check out that Tim Gunn book.

Also about the 'personal' blogs, I love your blog just the way it is. I love mixing personal and fun other things! :) But that's just me. :)

Miss E said...

Ooh, I'm going on Amazon right now to purchase Trinny and Susannah's book. That sounds like fun - and I'm in need of some inspiration in the wardrobe dept. Thx for the recommendations!

You know I love the mix of both the personal and the pretty, but it's totally up to you and whatever you feel most comfortable with. I'd go two places to read your words anyday :)

Brown Eyed Girl said...

I like the mix of pretty and personal!

Lily G. said...

I love Tim Gunn!! His book has got to be fabulous! I also love the mix. Keep your posts as is!

liliesandgrapes.blogspot.com

Brunch at Saks said...

Oh I love both the pretty and personal posts! :) xoxo

The Blonde Duck said...

I like reading for both.

And I have no style. Except cowboy boots and sundresses.

Sara said...

I like the mix of both, sometimes I want something more insightful and sometimes I just want some "Pretty".

And, I don't think American women are honest enough with each other. And, we don't care enough about our appearances I think.

Maggie said...

Ooh, I just circled back and saw that I completely missed your last question. Must've been in dreamland crushing on Trinny and Susannah... sorry about that!

I'm a believer in keeping the personal and frivolous and everything else in one place. Now this may sound incongruous with my current slate of blogs, but doing the wedding blog showed me the value of being personal as well being political... hence the desire to start a new project where I'll be My True Self. All of Her.

Looking forward to what's to come from you - whether it's here or in a new place. But I hope it's here. ;-)

MCW said...

I like reading both in one spot!
It's nice to have some Pretty Reality thrown in :)

cMe said...

Keep all the posts here!

Andi said...

I think you should keep all posts here. I love a good mix of the superficial and real topics. Some blogs all they do is whine and say catty things about people in their lives and I can't stand it. Then the blogs that only talk about fashion seem preachy and fake. Your blog is a fun mix of both so when you do blog about your personal life it makes it that much more enjoyable for us on the outside that can sympathize.

p.s. I know I sound selfish saying it is enjoyable to hear about whatever problems it is you have in your personal life to blog about but you get what I mean. It makes you more relatable since you are a superstar blogger.

Kaitlin said...

Oh I have to get the Tim Gunn book, that looks fabulous.

I really enjoy the mixture of your blog posts. I always look forward to your posts because they are all so unique.

Jess said...

Great comment about the J. Simpson shoes-- I couldn't agree with you more-- they are quite catchy as of late!

Indy said...

I like all of the posts here.

I recently looked through the In Style book and it looks really helpful. I need all of the help I can get! I'd also like to get Stacy & Clinton's book too.

Kristin said...

Keep on doing just what you're doing lady. That's why we love you! I wish Tim and Clinton would come over for a dinner party in which I would feed them and they would dress me.

Mrs. Newlywed said...

I say keep it all together. Of course, obviously, I do that on mine. My thought is that the blend keeps the blog ever-changing in a way. One day you have the freedom to write about good shoes and the next babies. It creates the "whole" person [I am so philosophical].

Plus, I am hella lazy, and two blogs is beyond my capabilities.

Also, Trinny and Susannah? GREAT book. Love them.

saralovesshoes said...

i love all your posts! keep them coming!

i have been reading Issac Mizarhi's style book and it's great. i'll have to check out Trinny and Susannah's...love that show

The Redhead Riter said...

Stopping by from SITS to say HI

Do whatever makes YOU happy!

:o)

Lily G. said...

Mel! You have to come to my page and watch the clip I posted of Tim Gunn. You will die!

liliesandgrapes.blogspot.com

a H.I.T. said...

If I didn't like the witty and substance together, I wouldn't read you. There. I was blunt and to the point. No compliments here.

Hopefully the Chinese government will approve.

Just in case, it's the witty, satirical humor that keep me coming back for more - like a good glass of Palhmeyer Cabernet.

Whitney said...

I love KS's style book. My sorority actually has both the style and manners in our library. Cute reads for the college prep girl. :)

misss_e said...

I think you are so witty and your life is interesting. I love reading the mix of both personal and pretty posts here. please dont change the format!

The Mrs. said...

Just ordered the T and Suzanna book on your say so. Love them! I kind of like both doll. Mix it up!

TUWABVB said...

Yes, I'm like a week late - blame sporadic internet abilities on my move...but I had to chime in and say I love to read both! Both! Vote for both! :)

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